Physical chemistry in dating
And biblically, that's something we're supposed to save for marriage.
I love him very much, but we do not have the same "chemistry" that I shared with the first person. I just saw the first guy again this week and was reminded again how strong the chemistry is between us.
And what's so troubling in all of this is that when premarital sexual activity is the norm, we think a man isn't marriage material if we don't feel like bedding him before the wedding. My suggestion is to step back from the relationship a bit (if only in your mind) to see if there is a friendship there.
True friendship is rich soil for nurturing attraction.
And I do believe it's because, all along, he was a sound candidate for husband. However, I would caution you from letting him go simply because he doesn't measure up to the man you yourself said isn't a candidate for marriage.
Don't let the enemy use a relationship that didn't bring God honor to undermine one that does (or has the potential to). If your boyfriend and you aren't meeting with a mentor couple, now would be a great time to start.